Saturday, October 25, 2008

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SHIFT PARADIGMS

SHIFTING PARADIGM



Everyone has distinguished & sometimes unique paradigm.This more often reveled during interaction.Paradigms is what is one's way he/she see something irrespective of anyone. This is another word for perception which become convincingly true for them though they turn out be incomplete & inaccurate in evaluation of conscious.Why it is so?.
As you may noticed ,our paradigms are way off the mark as you see something in your point of view in preoccupied condition individual frame of reference or belief having different center of priority & concern.
Negative paradigm can put limitation on the positive paradigm those bring best in us.Then why each has varying frame of reference.Right from birth , life is passed through phases like dependent ,independent & interdependent.There are various needs with varying intensity in those in varying time phases.They are category of needs.They may be physical, mental, emotional social & spiritual one or in combination of them.Now let us put them in matrix of life phase so that it will be reckoner of paradigm source, which may be examined to address & refine problems. Various natural laws governs the role played by you.Your center of concern becomes critical in determining way you feel.that has impact on your response. Dependent are those nurtured and directed. Self actualization and proactive attitude will transform he/she in to independent in relevant personality dimension & known hereafter to achieve private victory.
When independent he/she contemplate warmth with permeable and accessible psychological environment, that pave ways to interdependency.There is psychological difficulty among members of society.as they differ widely in what they want in comparison of other-one to be.Thus society's interest sets arbitrary goals of top placed personality traits.The warmth and self-insightful are in listed desirable trait with other like self-confidence intelligent religious valued etc. In predicting behavior, we must be able to judge how one will behave in in an unknown situation. Man/Woman strive to modify her/himself so that he can better what is real from what is not real.Thus it increase his/her happiness ,strengthen personality for making successful adjustment to physical and social environment.
We have paradigm not only about ourselves also about other people. and life general,whatever important to me/you or anyone,will becomes its paradigm by concern and obsession.It may be spouse family. friends, self, sports and other popular centers. They mess oneself up their center of life is on them.like things falls as per law of gravity. Principle which apply to everyone 0f rich/poor unsaleable and is invariable. The personally goal Love, Honesty, gratitude , designation, loyalty, fairness are some of principles, one can live on them. To validate these principle how it work effectively, just imagine you are living based on their opposite-a life of dishonesty,loafing, selfishness and hate and you can't do so. Ironically putting principle first key to be,which do better in other center.If you live with principle of service,respect and love for instance,you would likely to pickup more friends with stable friendship.
Personality may be described from trait, structural or adjustment point of views. The structural way it trait view stress the similarities and differences between individual & dynamic organization of trait within individual and in the adjustment wherein, it examines interaction between the person and his/her environment . . . Continued Page2
Dollard and Miller's reinforcement theory explains personality as accumulative product of what the individual learns during life comprise aspect relatively combine effect gene acquired in heredity,learning culture.
A STUDY CONDUCTED with analysis of statistical data of trait measured by following inventory
DRIVE
ACTIVITY by level
SENSORY AWARENESS
SEXUALITY
MENTAL POWER Temperament
EMOTIONALITY
OPTIMISM-PESSIMISTIC
EXPRESSIVENESS
THINKING EXTROVERSION
SPEED OF CLOSER FLEXIBILITY OF CLOSER
SELF EXTENSION SELF CONFIDENCE SELF INSIGHT
PRACTICAL
ECONOMIC VALUE
RELIGIOUS VALUES
SCIENTIFIC VALUES
AESTHETIC VALUE
FANTASY VALUE
SOCIAL VALUE
LIBERALISM
RELATIONSHIP OPERATORS
EMOTIONAL
CONSERVATORY
AMBITION
ORDERLINESS
EMOTIONAL CONTROL
GREGARIOUSNESS
WARMTH
LEADERSHIP
DOMINANCE
CONFORMITY
INTELLIGENT
IMPULSIVE Continued page 3
A Drive is strong stimulus which arises impart of body and impels action.Activity level,SENSORY AWARENESS AND SEXUALITY are drive traits.their strength is determined by stimuli which arise in muscles,sense organ and sex gland..Variations activity level are closely related to genetic factor but better nutrition , more sleep , stimulant or higher level of aspiration marker and sometimes permanent increase.negative , drinking and smoking temporarily decrease awareness.deprivation of sensory stimulation has profound effect upon personality &
the amount of sexual activity is largely determined by heredity, but type of is largely determined by what is learned from culture. Sex attitude and behavior can be modified by information psychotherapy and social change.
TEMPERAMENT
It refers to characteristic phenomena of individual emotional nature including his/her susceptibility to emotional stimulation.customary speed of response the quality of his/her prevailing mood.It is counter-dependent with approach & attitude of other.People differ in its level of response as well types of it for example laughing crying dear etc.. Emotion produce change in our physical condition & subjective feeling what we intended for other.changes in heart rate.blood pressure ,,breathing intensity electrical response of skin are measure of emotion.
EMOTIONAL INDEPENDENT
Unshakable Self possessed, Placid-Calm. Serene , Peaceful, Self-sufficient but Apathetic and Sluggish
EMOTIONAL DEPENDENT
High excitability, Confused, worries constantly without adequate cause.sensitive unreasonable agitation.Expect a lot from other undermining need of others mood varying from elated to Depressed condition, Woman are more emotional tan men indicate differences in Emotionality are largely body dependent.
There is some evidence that the variation in mood are are more due to internal than to external factor.However general of person's optimism is strongly influenced by degree of optimism pervading in culture.
Strong Emotionality pave way of compassion, Integrity, Security, Expressiveness & Supportive culture.Here is what interdependency inter-played.


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Saturday, October 18, 2008

INTRODUCTION

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Among various SYMPTOM OF Physical/mental/behavioral emotional stess is the basic & formost one.It is the best driving instict that yield a force to many action.It sometimes result in damage to the subjected function.


It is something that many people have already learned in their hard way. When we started writing this content, we discussed it with some fiends of ours. I may be facing the prospect of losing his entire life savings if I dwell on each aspact & The theory would had been made redundant but the process learning to cope stress given here for our own circumstances based on suggestion.They suggested two things. The first attempt should has been made explain clearly what a destructive force stress can be.And second was that suggestion have been made to help people take charge of their respective lives. We have tried to do just our best.

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Friday, October 17, 2008

DOMAINS





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 GROW ASSETS OF YOUR LIFE.


D.Sterlin Covey describes various domains of focus intentions & concerns to achieve goals in the life.However it can be broadly classified  in following four domains.There are four kinds of achievement, which can be realized by individual.


They are 1.Physical 2.Mental 3.Social/Emotional 4. Spiritual. These are integral part of life. & these can be defined in various ways of different philosophies.



 

These are main agendas for most of motivation

& organizational theories.

In order to achieve

any goal, One should multifaceted approach by being  deterministic. One has to apply time-management tools of matrix allocating task of Urgent & its Importance as shown in attached Image. Resources must be used to expedite Quadrant -II activity of classified activity matrix and to execute accordingly. We should plan those activities which produce all-round growth & aspect of performance & capability, empathetically till it becomes Quadrant -II.

Strengthening Physical nature.

For Physical body, It is necessary have Right food, rest, Relaxation & regular exercising. In achieving any of missions, Physical fitness is essential and unavoidable part of life. It may, sometimes becomes  urgent to erode or swap Quadrant-I & Quadrant II activity with failure of other endowment



  • Reviving Spiritual life


Nature invariably banquets on living ones its blessings right from, birth. In greed & ignorance Humans establish discord & dissociate with it. The spiritual life cannot  be revived without organization of activities; so that we can reap benefit of it. Those benefits give impetus for our mission. 'Peace' is critical component for any prosperity. Every person possesses two worlds. These are outside world & inside one. The peace cannot achieved without independent will. The meditation breaks interplay of cause & effect between two worlds, paving way to restore inherited peace in both.The peace imparts positivity in our actions

The sense of peace in innermost mind & conscious may be gained by accessing timeless truths of nature. Thus one can turn the tide. This inspires us to draw upon the sources to win great serenity in understanding. This revitalizes our spiritual life with harmony of values validated by Cancerous.the great sailor who survived & also saved life of others.


Thus we come out victoriously in the battle of life that is daily in silent chamber of soul.” Then it is ensued by Public victory as you think cooperatively to promote welfare of other. Thus we can make them genuinely happy.


Minding Mentality.


The fancy heading, ''Minding Mentality' is given here as one has to be very much cautious to discuss about it. There are many theories applied with quality education and quality literature. I see positive vertical advancement. Again there fallout must be analyzed with various indies. These indies show effects those are detrimental, sometimes questionable or unknown If we consider scenario described by WHO,in their creditable report,we frown with the report showing rise in Mental sickness. It is also evident from other phenomena as there is, no-doubt, deterioration of public health & environment. Since there is unending debate do about it, One thing is clear that complexity stringed with it. Let us again individually to make private victory without being Hippocratic. Creative solution must be explored for such difficult subject for placing it in right perspective. As, "Charity Begins at home" One has explore each, any and all act of thinking, tested with own ability to express ourselves in distilled, clear and concise words examining its context and assumption...It is invariably occupies Quadrant-I, Quadrant_II ,Quadrant III and sometimes Q-IV.


Education,  continuing education, continuously honing and expanding of mind are essentials for revitalizing Mental Strength. It is so valuable to read broadly and to expose yourself to great mind. To enable oneself to handle challenge in life, Oneself has to log on values and results to monitor improvement. Thus keeping a journal of thought, experience and leaning promotes communicating deeper thoughts, f feeling and ideas necessary for private victory. The great "Gita' Hindu's guides to oneself to enrich our life and meaningfully to our purpose and goals. Organizing and planning possibility can be done with habit II and Habit-III.

Proactive people can figure out many, ways to educate themselves.


. I seek as interdependent to forward experience & vast knowledge in accessing for participating voluntarily in all possible forums to live-outs events.


Being Social


It is itself a jugular problem. It is very difficult task as based on individual paradigm. The social life is feasible result of emotional life. But it not exclusively based in our private life as it manifests in our relationship with others. It has more to be centered in interpersonal, leadership, empathic communication and creative cooperation. . Extensive introspection in our heart has to be done. We have to push ourselves to face challenge to surmount situation by applying skill of public victory, even though  not having achieved private victory. It is common in modern life, where normal situation arise out in our everyday interaction with other as things /issues are looked through different point of view such as shot-sightedness /long-sightedness. Proactive people are those who agree to communicate until an amicable solution are found out. One has to be firm to be willing out it. As author can or does not claim to present any unique & comprehensive solutions as mileage with little or much unknown is to be covered. Much of wisdom has to be gained. Listening habit has to be explored with focus on refined communication with practice of Habit 5 described by Mr Covey


It may be ensued with synergy to be created were concerned recognize differences and evolve third alternative. It may be one with guidelines, framed in next page.








  1. A script & shift in paradigm to be made in long process of thought & belief.


Such as Every problem is opportunity enhancing wisdom.


2 There is no problem without solution. Belief of WIN/WIN solution must be prevailed.


3 Every-time a sincere effort to step out with own frame of reference & without giving up prevailing security of self & other to depict deep understanding of other being human.


4 Saint or Wise person describes the self-esteem is primarily a matter of mind-set, of attitude that one reconciling himself in peace of mind without impairing deepest value, such as…


Any solution can that can provide security (preferably believing so) with right motive.


Though security does not necessarily comes from circumstance or position, but it does when one authentically, creatively and cooperatively interact with other people and experiences these interdependent habits









Thursday, October 9, 2008

KNOW YOURSELF



Power of Rational Thinking
In world of inter dependency human have to interact extensively with each other way informal ways with little understanding owing to short introduction & acquaintance. Person’s nature pre-occupied has to suddenly changeover interacting with other. Thus he/she not only get less satisfied but fails to expectation of latter to pass message validated by heart. They react more in provoked undertone. Communication consists of for elements as under.

Experience, the triggering poing
Belief
Consequences
Detection.
For example let us understand the emotional outburst of Raju who fought with his mother in a morning and evening while going to office and returning respectively. He also fought with his Boss in office. All he did so for trivial matters. In morning his mother asked for domestic work. This was a start of an event to trigger upset, but probably he told himself like the: "How can you ask to do work when I am hard press of a time?” Or such self talk of his belief system that she is there to trouble me..
And that made him angry as a consequences In his office he went wide for his Boss's apathy attitude toward him, the as he already had a pre connived and felt bad for not assigning a job favorable to him. In a perplexed condition he did not do job in hand well. On receiving bad remark from boss. he felt guilty and depressed.
In short, because of his mental unequlibrium in a low intelligence and emotional dependent, he expected the irrationals and un realistic attitude which were already prevalent in his thought process. Only rationalizing is a key to improve his belief system to obviate his irrational self talk. Thus he can overcome vulnerability and live peace and happy life.
The rationalization is a such a tool of rational therapy that detects the belief system Thus one can learn to scrutinize the self talk by sentence and ask to corroborate authentic evidence for the belief in a one's mind One has to find out any consistency of triggering event before he conclude.. One has to avoid exaggeration added by his short coming to rationalize before picking up the fight with a concern


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Wednesday, October 8, 2008

MAP THE SELF in working on your attitudes

IN bid to have edge over other,we practice "One Up manship" attitudes with other sometimes undermining other's importance in interdependency.We fail to have introspection due to short-singhteness.There is abundance in resource & opportunity bestowed by nature which is well owned of Animal, birds & marine in world by in the ecosystem.With industrious human nature, to men/women still find short of livelihood & continuously plan for our generations without pausing to retrospect. Human indulge in wrong doing fetching a miserable feeling termed as sin.Following given are some of points to analyze yourself.
Shift Paradigm
Human has their identity obsession.
(page linked)
Hyperactive by nature.

Conflict of personality

Excessive obsession either creativity v/s Logical ability

Difference in aspiration of Men & Women

Difference in education & Dexterity

Inequality in level playing.

Double standard & Fickle behaviour
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Monday, October 6, 2008

MAP THE SELF

WIN WIN CONSULTANT

I BHARAT SADANI AM RETIRED PERSON WITH 28 year of indusrial experience in psychology in human relations & am from Mumbai city of India .I have launched company named with name "WIN WIN CONSULTANT" WHERE-IN associates can be accommodated with concept mutually beneficial to both tied-up parties.

#Primary Mission/objective : To spread message of loving & joyful interaction in participation ways CONTAINING Painful misunderstanding side falls of modernization imitating work & civil culture reacting to cut-throat competition adopting sedentary life and interpersonal relations.
GOAL: Creative usage of living style,emotions,knowledge,talents,time and all resources.As may host my website.

WHATS UP: I WISH WEBSITE TO provide comprehensive & consolidated solution to problem arises in everybody life in handling them. Visitor has to evaluate self for existing strength in respect Physical,Mental,Status.. etc Identify personality,attitude, perceptional and stress pertain to it.Learn / suggest counter measure on symptoms.
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#Primary Mission/objective :
Commonly known SYMPTOM OF Physical/mental/behavioural emotional to take remedial measure








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Thursday, October 2, 2008

MAP THE SELF

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Tuesday, September 30, 2008

MISSION

Superior Society

Men and women of all society learn work raise children and grow old. As such all-living creatures are born with instinctive power in biological evolution. Insects, bird animal and marine creature are empowered with impulse by divine power. The divine power was cognized by human, when they formed a society with interaction.
Interaction evolved language for interface among humans. The divine power is defined by faith and utopias. Till now. the divinity is unresolved assumption in faith yet not challengeable and deniable. Unlike other creatures the humans have significant intellectual logical and memory functions, they form a part of personal on mental power the mental power have remarkable interaction sanogenetic power and perceived images inter-alias. As such society is comprised & structured children (the dependant), young adult and old people. Mr. William James contemplates on wisdom inherited; there is a bearing on foundation of superior society. (More on Wisdom)
The intelligence, logical, memory, energy and experience of age generate wisdom in HUMAN with time. They inherit age adjustment keys through generations, thereby explore methods to make effective society and thus work for mankind, nation and universe with effectiveness & harmony, but it fails to wide aspiration of dynamics of the society in trends dominance & political values. Thus wisdom fails to succeed in wide appreciation and acceptance of new generation of society in new geneartion.
There is eminent need to set social goals addressing requirement of old people of with physical weakness simultaneously & synchronization for promoting gen-next of happy young one by involving them to participate in enhancing wisdom.We should strive to create awareness program through Chat,Seminal,Publication, email,website & other medias.
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Saturday, September 27, 2008

STRESS DIFINED


WHAT IS STRESS?
We all need a challenge in our lives. Without it the spring goes out of our step and our lives become monotonous, unproductive and frustrating. Our creative juices and coping mechanisms work best under a certain amount of pressure. The problem is getting the balance right. If the strings of a violin are too loose to play properly, but if they are too tight they will snap.

It's the same with the human body. Too little pressure is as bad as too much. Pressure involves the exertion of continuous force, coercion or restraint on someone or something. Of itself, it is neither positive nor negative. The strings of a violin produce their notes by being stretched to a particular tension.is an optimum level of pressure which each individual can cope with without being over-stretched. This varies from person to person. We're all different. What exhausts one will energize another.

How & when Stress can energize someone?
Some like to be stressful because they generally produce such strong positive emotions in us. The enthusiasm, happiness and joy we experience when we are competing in sporting events or involved in a loving relationship usually far out-weigh the negative elements of uncertainty, anxiety and jealousy. Interestingly, when we pick up on these positive energies our resistance to stress is actually increased and our capacity to cope with setbacks grows. This is an insight which, as we will see, can help us deal with the negative stress in our lives. But, no matter who we are, there comes a point beyond which genuine fatigue leads to exhaustion and burn-out (cf. Performance Curve).
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Ability to Cope
A healthy self-image depends in great measure on our ability to deal with life's problems effectively. The central element in all stress is our belief that we are no longer able to cope. The fact is that this belief may not have been undestood well. 
The reality is that most people who experience stress do have

Symptoms Like……..
LOW STIMULATION
LETHARGY
BOREDOM
INDECISION
DISSATISFACTION
FRUSTRATION
APATHY
Inconssistancy                                                                    Continue          Abort
Stress Defined!

OVER-STIMULATION
TENSION
DISORGANIZATION
INSOMNIA
AGGRESSION
INSECURITY
ILLNESS

SET BACK OF STRESS 
DISINTEGRATION
ADDICTION
CHRONIC ILLNESS
DEPRESSION
BURN-OUT
HEART ATTACK
DESPAIR

NOW, WHAT WE MAY ACHIEVE MAY BE...                                                                                                   Abort
SCRUTINITY OF STRSS -bharat sadani 9/25/08 6:12 PM

BEST STIMULATION
EFFICIENCY
ENERGY
DECISION
FLEXIBILITY
SELF-CONFIDENCE
ACHIEVEMENT
ROMANCE
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LOW PRESSURE is stressful. It is a particular problem for the
unemployed and for those with repetitive and undemanding jobs.
Lethargy is destructive and boredom can be soul-destroying.
Without the challenge to achieve, we under-utilize our skills and
even loose our sense of purpose and meaning in life.
OPTIMUM PRESSURE allows us to live a balanced, integrated life.
Our performance is enhanced by manageable pressure and leaves
us with a sense of well-being and motivated due to achievements.

HIGH PRESSURE leads to exhaustion and diminishes our performance.

 If we go into over-drive rather than heed the warning signals,

we only compound our problems and suffer severe anguish and distress.
                                                                     

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